So, this is one wishful post.

One, beacuse I am not really sure about  having kids. And even if I do, I am not sure about having a girl child. Second, she stumbling upon my blog is such a far-fetched idea.

However, there are few things which I really need her to understand and follow - with or without me. And thus, I am writing this post!

1. Eat.
It is okay to grab the extra slice of pizza or to gulp down some large fries.

2. Drink.
Drink anything you like. Even if you love beer or scotch, go ahead. Ladies' drinks are not necessarily your drink. And it's completely fine to find your solace in milk or juices. Never do what you don't really want to do!

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3. Love.
Love everyone. Unconditionally. Always remember, the world is really like an echo. Yes, in true sense and in every sense. Alternatively, Karma is a bitch.

4. It is okay to be confused and indecisive at times.

5. It is completely okay to form judgments - as long as it doesn't affect anyone.

6. It is not forbidden to have loads of guy friends and confiding in them. Some of the better friends are always the guys.

7. But it is forbidden to friend-zone a guy. Or many.

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8. You can love History and Literature and hate Science.

9. You don't have to smile if you don't mean it. You don't have to accept what you don't want to. It is about you too.

10. If you cry, mean it. If you shout in anger, mean it.

11. It is okay if you seek attention. But you really don't need it to survive or to live.

12. You are a girl. You can PMS 365 days an year. It is totally okay.

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13. A perfect fit bra is a necessity sometimes ;)

14. Chocolates don't solve any problem. Eating or Gifting.

15. Travel like crazy if you wish to. Don't let anyone stop you. Not even me.

16. Exercise to stay fit. And strong.

17. You don't owe an explanation. Stop justifying your choices.

18. Respect elders - if they deserve it!

19. You don't need a boyfriend to validate your existence. You can stay single and be you.

20. Sleeping around is not a joke. Learn from the mistakes. Always.

21. You really need to wash your face twice, put on loads of sunscreen before going out in the sun and brush your teeth twice a day. And none of the above is optional.

22. It is okay to fight with people and dislike few in the course of your life.

23. Cooking is not a necessity. You can survive and eat healthy without being a master chef!

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24. Follow your dreams. Chase them. Run after them - no matter what.

25. I am always there for you. Always listening. You just need to tell me everything.


I hope this is not a huge list to remember!

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  1. Heartfelt post. Its important to convey the goodness that we bear to the gen next.
    Grt read.

    Pls read my week8 post for #superbloggerchallenge2018 #instacuppa

  2. hahaha! another hilarious one. Don't you prefer a girl child? I definitely do.
    #5 is tricky, one cannot avoid forming judgments and they do tend to have a subconscious effect on our behaviour.
    Glad you will teach #7 to her lol.
    #12 should be allowed for men too. why should girls have all the fun?
    #19 can only be said by people who are not single LOL!
    #21 isn't dusky sexy?

  3. You didn't leave anything here. I am sure you are going to be great Gen z mom! 🌻

  4. Hehe... wonderful list. of course, you lost me after food, drink and love :) Jokes aside, I think I missed most of the gender-neutral points in my life... certainly the sunscreen one!

  5. I liked no. 9,17,18,22 gud post , stop justifying your choices . Yes why does a girl need to ??

  6. Cool😎.. reading this I wish to be your daughter too😍

  7. He he.. Make me laugh.. I love this list and i find it suitable for me as well. Well written. #superbloggerchallenge2018