To my fire, he should be the ice. 
But he is as fiery, may be twice.

I am social, he should be reserved.
But that is not what we both deserved.

To my clumsiness, he should be the saving grace.
But that is so not the case!

Opposites don't attract - that is not the fate 
Otherwise, love would attract hate. 

You might just be looking  in the opposite direction,
Just stop and start walking in the same direction.